tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-72980223035311180272024-03-05T21:31:08.531-08:00How To Get Him To CommitUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7298022303531118027.post-33129250587922873202012-09-17T18:54:00.000-07:002013-04-30T09:51:44.059-07:00Fear Of Commitment In Men And The Reasons Behind It<div id="lens_intro_title_value">
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<span style="font-size: small;">There are many reasons why there is a <b><span style="background-color: white;"><a href="http://www.howtogetyourmantocommit.com/">fear of commitment in men</a></span></b>. Some men might have apprehension about making a commitment because some may feel that they are not mature enough, while others may feel they are not financially ready to make that kind of a commitment.</span></h2>
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Some guys may not be ready to settle down with one woman while others may feel that a serious relationship will eat into too much of their personal time and not although them to do the things that they would like to do. Whatever the case may be, when answering why men have a fear of committing, we have to remember not to blame it on one specific reason when there could be several reasons that are holding them back. </div>
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There are many reasons why men might be afraid to make a commitment. Usually some of the biggest reasons have to do with losing their freedom and their sense of identity. Some men just want to avoid a permanent relationship altogether. Below I will explore in more detail some of the reasons why there is a fear of commitment in men.</div>
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If a woman starts to talk about wanting to move the relationship to the
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reason why men are fearful of commitment has to do with the
emancipation of women. Because women are out there in the real world
holding down jobs similar to men, this makes some men feel afraid and
insecure about themselves.<br />
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Traditionally, men have been taught by society that they are the bread
winners and the providers for their families. With women now having both
a career and family, their independence is actually a threat to the
male ego. Some men may have fears about whether their girlfriend will
really need them in the long run and that eventually they might find
themselves in a situation where they are getting dumped for that very
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He might fear that if he makes a commitment that the same thing could
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something that is all too familiar to him and he doesn't want to end up
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Also, if a man was previously married, and the marriage ended in
divorce, he may not be so ready to jump into another marriage where the
potential to be hurt again could occur. He may have been hurt very badly
by his ex because his ex might have cheated on him or she was a very
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Maybe he hasn't been divorced for very long, and as a result those hurt
feelings, still linger. Only time will help him to heal and come to
terms with that past relationship to the point of putting it into proper
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the way that they are programmed. For men, getting too serious in a
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<b>Fear of commitment in men</b> can be both overwhelming for them, but
frustrating for the women who are in these relationships with them.
Knowing how to navigate and deal with this situation can be frustrating
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Although, men might fear that they will lose their independence and
freedom if they agree to marriage, there is so much to be gained by
making that commitment with another person knowing that a spouse is
committed and there for you all the time especially when things might
not be going well for him at work and elsewhere.<br />
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You don't have to settle for this situation. There are ways of getting
around your man so that he will make that commitment to you without any
ultimatums or pressure.<br />
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There
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<b><span style="font-family: Georgia,"Times New Roman",serif;">1. Be Happy With Who He Is</span></b><br />
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<span style="font-family: Georgia,"Times New Roman",serif;">Whatever your do, don't try to change him. Everyone has their own little idiosyncrasies. You need to </span><span style="font-family: Georgia,"Times New Roman",serif;">accept your man for who he is. However, if there is something that is really annoying you about him,</span> <span style="font-family: Georgia,"Times New Roman",serif;">like one of his irritating habits, then let him know in a respectful way. Otherwise, try to get to know</span> <span style="font-family: Georgia,"Times New Roman",serif;">the person underneath and appreciate all that he has to offer you. Complaining about his personality</span> <span style="font-family: Georgia,"Times New Roman",serif;">could potentially damage your relationship and then he won't consider you as a future partner.</span><br />
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<b>2. Get to Know Him As A Person & Possible Future Husband</b><br />
If you want you man to commit, then you better start off by getting to know him as a person. You might like the sound of getting married, because everyone around you just happens to be married or they are engaged to be married, but you better make sure that this guy is the one for you. You have to make sure that the two of you are on the same page and have the same goals as far as where the relationship is heading. You both have to want the same things in the way of your relationship and most importantly you have to be compatible. <br />
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As part of getting to know him, try to participate in the same activities even if something like golf isn't your thing. At least you will be showing an interest in what your guy likes to do and that you are willing to participate in the activity so that you can be with him and get to know him better. You never know, you may end up liking that sport as well.</div>
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<b>3. Allow him His Space </b><br />
Even if you want to spend every waking minute with him allow him some space to breath and still have a life of his own. When he wants to spend time with his friends, don't be resentful. If you do this it will make him think that you are too clingy and demanding. Instead, tell him to go out and have a good time and don't feel threatened by his independence. Couples who are secure in themselves should have no problem spending time apart. Having individual interests is healthy for the relationship. </div>
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<b>4. Maintain a life of Your Own</b><br />
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If you want to get your man to commit to a relationship, maintaining your independence is of utmost importance. What I mean by this is make sure you maintain your interests and goals. For the same reasons that women are attracted to men that have a career and a life mapped out for themselves, the same holds true for men. <br />
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Men are also very attracted to women who are independant and have interests outside of their relationship. They find this to be a very desirable trait in women as opposed to a woman who acts very needy and dependent and can't seem to do anything on her own. To throw all this away on any man would be a mistake in the event that the relationship does not workout.</div>
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<b>5. Feed His Big Ego</b><br />
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How to get your man to commit is showing him how much you adore him and everything that he does. Make him feel extra special by telling him how you admire whatever he is good at like sports, his career, how handy he is at fixing things. Make sure you sound sincere about your compliments. They need to be genuine. This way your man won't have to wonder how you feel about him because you will be very forth coming about all his good qualities. </div>
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<b>6. Let Him Make The Proposal</b><br />
Ultimately, you have to let your man make the decision whether he want to make commitment to your or not. Just be yourself and don't bend over backwards trying to be something you are not. Instead, be genuine and show him your good qualities and then you want have to convince him of anything. <br />
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How to get your man to commit to a relationship will naturally happen over time if you play your cards right. By allowing yourself to get to know who he really is by spending quality time with him while at the same time maintaining a life of your own this will encourage him to want to make a commitment to you.</div>
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When he sees that you give him his space without being too demanding on his time, then he will want to make that commitment to you because he will be attracted to all your good qualities and all that you have to offer him.</div>
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<span style="font-family: Georgia,"Times New Roman",serif;">Is this something you have been saying to yourself over and over again, and yet you are at a total loss for how to handle this situation? Have you been sitting on the fence for what seems like forever, wondering if your boyfriend is ever going to pop the question? </span></div>
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Do you wonder why it is taking him so long to propose? Finally you thought you had found the man of your dreams and you are both head-over-heels for each other, yet somehow there seems to be something holding your boyfriend back? Do you wonder what it could be?<br />
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There could be many reasons why your boyfriend doesn't want to get married yet. If you haven't already, it might be time to have a heart-to-heart talk with your boyfriend in terms of how you feel about marriage and why he is unable to make a commitment to you. Here are some areas that you need to address with him.<br />
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<span style="font-family: Georgia,"Times New Roman",serif;">This has to be the most common reasons why a guy does not want to get married because he feels he is not ready to make that long-term commitment. Underneath he may feel that he is not ready to give up his independence and he may feel that the two of you are not financially ready. Whatever the case may be, it is up to you to address his concerns and reassure him that everything will be o.k. in the long run. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Georgia,"Times New Roman",serif;">Pick the right time, and gently ease him into the topic of marriage. Talk about your future together in terms of where you see your relationship with him in the not so distant future and see what kind of reaction you get from him.</span><br />
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If you have been dating him for quite awhile, then it is probably in both your best interests to talk about your future together. Some men get too comfortable in a relationship and they don't see the necessity in getting married. Some would be quite happy to leave things as is, but if you really insisted that the two of you should get married, and convinced him of all the benefits of tying the knot then your man might agree to that as well.</div>
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That is why it is important for you to feel him out to hear what his thoughts are on marriage in general and where he sees your relationship down the road.</div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><a href="http://www.blogger.com/goog_376045587" style="background-color: white; color: red;">I</a><span style="font-family: Georgia,"Times New Roman",serif;"><a href="http://www.howtogetyourmantocommit.com/" style="background-color: white; color: red;">f you want to get married but your boyfriend doesn't</a>, then you need to find out what his fears are. He </span></span><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">might have very good reasons for not wanting to get married right away. Maybe he thinks that once</span><span style="font-family: Georgia,"Times New Roman",serif;"> </span><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">the two of you get married, you will want to start a family right away. Your boyfriend may want to have</span><span style="font-family: Georgia,"Times New Roman",serif;"> </span><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">a few years together with just the two of you. He might think that you will have very high</span><span style="font-family: Georgia,"Times New Roman",serif;"> </span><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">expectations in terms of what kind of husband you want him to be. Maybe this scares him to death.</span><span style="font-family: Georgia,"Times New Roman",serif;"> </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">He might also be concerned by the fact that you will expect some big diamond engagement ring that he </span><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">can't afford right now and an elaborate wedding. If you want to get engaged but your boyfriend doesn't, </span><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">then these might be some issues you will need to consider. That is why it is so important to address </span><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">your boyfriend's fears once he is willing to open up and discuss why he doesn't see marriage in the </span><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">picture right now. Maybe by addressing his fears, you will be able to set him straight on what your </span><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-family: Georgia,"Times New Roman",serif;">expectations are and what you are willing to live without for the time being.</span> </span> <br />
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Don't keep bringing up the topic of marriage because this could put him off completely. Instead, give him time to sort through his feelings. Once you have expressed how you feel about marriage and have conveyed to him all the benefits of getting married, then it is not necessary to keep bringing the subject up. He knows how you feel and hopefully he will come around and realize that if he doesn't make some kind of commitment, he could run the risk of losing you altogether. <br />
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<a href="http://www.howtogetyourmantocommit.com/" style="color: red;">If you want to get married but your boyfriend doesn't</a>, don't be continually bringing up the subject of marriage. You don't want to pressure him into agreeing to do something he is not ready to do. You need to ease him into conversation about marriage and all the things you will both gain as a married couple. Give your man the time he needs to sort through his feelings about marriage. If you on the other hand apply to much pressure about getting married then he will feel that he is being pressured into it, and the decision is not really his.<b> </b></div>
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In order for the relationship to survive long-term, I think both parties
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